Edging, Tease & Denial

The place where pleasure becomes torment over and over again.

It starts with a breath. A whisper. A hand hovering just above where you ache most.

You’re trembling— aroused, desperate, obedient, and waiting. Always waiting.

This is the game of tease and denial. And I never lose.

I’m Erin Black, Chicago’s premier tease and denial escort— a specialist in the torment of edging, chastity, orgasm control, and sensory dominance.

With me, pleasure becomes pain, desire becomes discipline, and your climax… is never a given. It’s earned. Or not.

Each session is a slow, deliberate seduction. I’ll make you hover on the brink of ecstasy, only to be pull you back with my touch, my breath… or my command to stop.

Experience erotic torture orchestrated by a woman who knows how to control your pleasure and make you beg for mercy that’s not always guaranteed.

So, What's the big deal with Edging?

Edging, tease, and denial is  the act of drawing out arousal, keeping you perpetually on edge, never quite letting you fall into release. It’s a slow, intense build that rewires your mind to crave what you can’t have.

The longer you’re denied, the deeper you fall.

Combined with bondage, chastity, or verbal degradation, tease and denial becomes a full-body symphony of frustration and desire. 

Your body may beg, but your release belongs to me.

Tease & Denial FAQ

What you should know about booking a tease & denial session with me.

How do I prepare?

Preparation is pretty straight-forward for this type of session. I need to know your limits, interests, and ultimately how you want to feel post-session. Open communication is of the utmost importance.

I ask that you come showered, but there is a shower available for you to use when you arrive.

Ahead of time, I'll confirm your session time and send you specific instructions. Please follow them to the letter.

Make sure to bring the remainder of the session fee with you in cash. I prefer the largest denomination possible.

...but really. Do I get to orgasm?

Chances are, yes, unless you expressly state that you want to focus on not orgasming, or that you're interested in ruined orgasms and the like. 

If you have trouble with orgasm in general, please let me know ahead of time. There are ways this can be dealt with but I need to know ahead of time.

Can I combine different elements into one session?

You can, absolutely. Just be mindful of the amount of time you book. 

Booking an hour and then asking for 25 different things isn't possible unless I can suddenly grow 10 arms. Unfortunately, I am not related to Inspector Gadget.

But yes, combining interests is very common with a session like this and I often use sensory depravation, prostate massage/anal play, and body worship in conjunction with tease and denial.

Can I touch you?

You will know if and when you are allowed to touch me, and I will expressly state if you can.

Tease and denial is about not getting what you want, but we all need a little help from time to time, don't we? 

I don't like blindfolds/being restrained/etc. Can I still have a tease and denial experience?

Of course you can. Please let me know any aversions when you reach out to me, so that I can prepare for the session accordingly.

What to Expect from a Tease & Denial Session with Erin Black

You’ll be taken apart. Gently. Slowly. You’ll feel vulnerable. Obsessive. Addicted.

I’ll bring you to the edge until your body vibrates with need. Every moan, every twitch, every whimper will be read, measured, and used against you. Each wave leaves you more sensitive and desperate until the idea of release is unbearable.

That’s when you become mine.

No two sessions are the same, but they all begin with you on your knees, wanting more than I’ll ever give.

What happens during the time between moves between pleasure and desperation.

Consider the following:

  • Edging: Repeated near-climaxes without release, designed to build unbearable pleasure.
  • Chastity & Lock-Up: Physical or psychological restraint from self-pleasure— sometimes for hours, sometimes for weeks.
  • Ruined Orgasms: Letting you climax at the exact wrong moment, draining satisfaction and deepening control.
  • Verbal Domination: My voice alone can command your pleasure or humiliate your need.
  • Sensory Deprivation & Overstimulation: Tied down, blindfolded, exposed—my tools, your torment.
  • Erotic Hypnosis: Programming your mind to crave me, to submit fully, to feel my absence like a hunger.

Each method has one goal: to strip you of control and make your pleasure mine to decide.

Why Choose Erin Black for Your Tease & Denial Fantasy?

You deserve an expert that understands true tease and denial isn’t just touching— it’s tormenting.

It’s the way your eyes plead when I undo a button. The way your hips move and your thighs twitch when I whisper, “Not yet.” 

Outside of my prowess, you should understand:

  • My sessions are luxurious, controlled, and seductively cruel.
  • I am risk-aware and all sessions are built on open communication.
  • I session in the best private play spaces Chicago has to offer.
  • I deliver an unforgettable experience because I know exactly what you’re longing for and exactly how to deliver it.

Who is this for?

Ultimately, it’s for me. I love making you beg and denying you over and over again, offering relief just when you think you can’t possibly take any more.

Outside of that, this type of experience is perfect for:

  • Curious submissives ready to explore the world of edging and erotic denial.
  • Seasoned BDSM lovers craving strict orgasm control.
  • Bottoms addicted to the slow burn of teasing, aching, needing… with no relief in sight
  • Chastity enthusiasts looking for mental lock-up and prolonged frustration
  • Fetishists eager for ruin play, overstimulation, and the mindfuck of denial

You may be a novice. You may be trained. But once you step into my world, you’ll know—control never felt this good.

Book Your Exclusive Tease & Denial Experience in Chicago

Curious? Desperate? Already throbbing at the thought?

Sessions with me are exclusive, selective, and tailored. Whether you’re looking for a one-hour tease or a full evening of torment, you’ll get a customized journey into frustration and craving unlike anything you’ve known.

How to Prepare for Your Session

Be clear about your limits and fantasies. I’ll take your desires, stretch them, twist them, and turn them into a session you’ll feel long after it ends.

Contact Erin Black for Availability

I book limited clients each month to ensure every session is immersive, high-quality, and unforgettable. To inquire about availability and session options, visit the Contact page and submit your request.

Discretion is guaranteed. Control is not.

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in Kinky GFE, sensual domination, chastity, smothering, gender-based play, BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences.

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in Kinky GFE, sensual domination, chastity, smothering, gender-based play, BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences.

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My Summer Availability:

5-9pm, Monday-Friday
11-9pm Saturday and Sunday
I do require 72hr+ notice for all bookings.

I occasionally have daytime availability during the week! If you’re a current friend, please reach out via text message or direct email.

If we have not met before, please fill out my booking form for consideration.

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