I get it. This is cerebral, and that can get a little confusing.

Essentially, I’m a kink and BDSM enthusiast and all experiences with me center around power dynamics.

Some may call me a “kinky escort”, some may call me a “mistress” or “dominatrix” but I don’t like any of those terms as ways to describe what I do.

If you’re looking for someone to guide you through particular interests that are listed on my Practices page, you’re in the right place. If you’re looking for someone to lead you through an experience intuitively so you don’t have to make any decisions, you’re ABSOLUTELY in the right place.

Here’s a blog post that talks more about how I approach kink, power dynamics, and companionship.

That’s more common than you think.

You are not expected to have perfect language or certainty. Curiosity, uncertainty, and desire for guidance are all valid places to begin.

What matters is honesty and openness — not polish.

Yes — absolutely.

All communications and engagements are handled discreetly. Information shared during screening or sessions is used solely for safety, alignment, and scheduling.

Discretion is a baseline expectation, not a special request.

I expect you to behave like yourself, under the pretenses that you are coming to me to let go and let me lead.

I also expect you to be courteous, kind, and willing to explore. I am very engaged during our session, and I expect you to be as well.

Any other behavior specifics will be addressed privately once our time together is scheduled.

I do not list full rates publicly.

Online and in-person work includes a published starting point to establish clarity.

In-person rates start at $600/hr and online rates start at $400/hr. Specific pricing  is discussed after screening to ensure alignment and appropriate structure.

This approach keeps the focus on fit rather than comparison.

I do. My screening requirements are quite up-front and simple. You can screen one of two ways with me: ID verification or employment verification.

For ID verification I require the following:

• A photo of you holding your government-issued ID, with your full name and date of birth visible. Any other information can be redacted.

For work verification, I will accept the following:

• an active LinkedIn profile with over 100 connections. Your profile has to be filled out and your photo has to. be visible.

• a profile on a company website. Your photo has to be included.

• A work email that I can send a message to. I have an unrelated email for checks like this.

Regardless of the method you choose, I will always need to know your full name, age, email address, and phone number.

I require a deposit for all experiences, and the deposit varies depending on the experience. I will let you know directly how much the deposit is. and how you can pay it.

I take all forms of payment for deposits, but I prefer CashApp and Venmo. I take all forms of payment for sessions as well, but cash will always be king.

Any cancellation with less than 25 hours notice forfeits the deposit. Any cancellation with less than 24 hours notice requires a 50% cancellation fee.

You can reschedule once within the same month without needing to re-deposit.

Essentially, I need 24 hours notice for all experiences. I see people from 11am-9pm, with a heavy preference for start times between 1pm and 7pm.

Occasionally I will have same-day availability, but that’s very rare and is best for those I already have relationships with.