Practices + Interests

Context, Not a Menu

Some people arrive here with specific interests already in mind, and want to ensure our interests align.

Others arrive without language at all — only a sense that they want to be guided by someone who understands pacing, power, and care.

This page exists to offer context, not choices.


Nothing listed here is offered casually or à la carte. All practices live within structured experiences designed to be held correctly.

What matters most is not the practice itself.
It’s how it’s held.

Areas of Focus

Prostate-Focused Work

These are guided, attuned experiences centered on trust, pacing, and embodied release.

This work integrates physical response with psychological containment and is offered only within structured sessions, where there’s time and attention to support the experience properly.

Learn more about Prostate Massage →

Anal-Focused Play

Approached with care, communication, and gradual pacing.

This work emphasizes comfort, safety, and responsiveness, with attention paid to pacing rather than performance. Nothing is rushed, and nothing is pushed for effect.

Learn more about Anal Play →

Pegging

A form of guided power reversal held with authority and intention.
Penetrative elements are incorporated when they support the dynamic and structure of the session—not as the focus.

Learn more about Pegging →

Body Worship

Sustained attention and hierarchy expressed through presence rather than performance.
This experience is quiet, deliberate, and emotionally grounded.

Learn more about Body Worship →

Chastity + Orgasm Control

Psychological restraint, anticipation, and deliberate pacing.
This work centers on attention and authority rather than deprivation or spectacle.

Learn more about Chastity + Orgasm Control →

Sensory Control

Intentional modulation of attention through focused sensory input.
This work prioritizes nervous-system regulation, pacing, and attunement rather than overwhelm.

Learn more about Sensory Control →

Couple’s Coaching

Guided support for couples exploring BDSM, kink, or power dynamics within their relationship.

This work is relational + educational nature and focuses on communication, consent, and skill development.

Learn more about Couple’s Coaching →

Additional Practices

Some practices are not listed individually and are introduced only when appropriate.

Depending on context, experience level, and mutual agreement, additional elements may be integrated thoughtfully, including:

  • electro stimulation

  • tickling

  • gender-based or role-focused dynamics

  • medical play or religious themes

  • other sensory or psychological components

These are discussed privately and never assumed.

Online Work
Some dynamics are also offered through online sessions, where psychological authority, instruction, and pacing replace physical proximity.
Learn about Online Domination →

I practice Risk-Aware Consensual Kink and always have harm reduction in mind when playing, particularly with topics that are more taboo/extreme.

If you want more context around my style, I wrote about my approach here.

Scope + Exclusions

Not every practice or dynamic is part of my work.

This is not because they are taboo or incorrect, but because this practice is intentionally defined. What is excluded is done so deliberately, in order to maintain clarity, safety, and integrity.

As such, the following are not part of my offerings and are not open for discussion:

  • Race play

  • Gender-based play that is derogatory towards trans people or women

  • Weight-shaming

  • Brown, roman, or ruby play/showers

  • Full toilet

  • ABDL

  • Enema play

  • Suspension

  • Extreme breath play

  • Non-consensual play; discreet public play is part of my practice, heavy emphasis on discreet.

This clarity allows the work that is offered to be held correctly, without negotiation or confusion.

A Note on Boundaries and Discretion

Not every aspect of my work is public-facing.

Certain dynamics and practices are addressed only after screening, once trust and readiness are established. This protects safety, clarity, and the integrity of the experience.

If something you’re curious about isn’t listed here, it doesn’t mean it’s off the table—it means it’s handled with care and discussed in the right context.

How to Begin

You do not need to decide which practice applies to you.
You do not need to name everything perfectly.

If something on this page resonates—or if you’re simply drawn to the way this work is held—the next step is to review how requests are made and what is required to proceed.

Begin Here