Sensual Domination

You crave that space where your desires are met with control.

You’ve always wanted to let go. Not the “someone else pays your bills and tells you what to do” kind of letting go, but the real kind— the kind where you find yourself under the spell of a woman who knows exactly how to make you say “yes” when every part of you wants to resist.

You want to be seduced, strapped down, teased, and thoroughly undone by a woman who knows how to push every single one of your buttons and show you ones you didn’t even know you had.

Well, sweetheart, that’s where I come in.

I’m Erin Black, a hedonist with a wicked grin and a soft spot for men who crave to be teased and tamed. I’m not here to humiliate or hurt you, unless you ask nicely. I’m here to show you how powerful surrender can be when it’s wrapped in pleasure, anticipation, and my signature brand of irresistible control.

What is sensual Domination?

For the uninitiated, sensual domination is the art of controlling you with my touch and commanding you by withholding what you truly want. It’s the slow, delicious dance of power where every move, breath, and whisper from me  makes your knees weak, your breath hitch, and your will? Putty in my hands.

It’s not about pain, unless of course, it is. What sensual domination is truly about is the anticipation, the knowing, the tease, the thrill of being right on the edge, not sure whether I’m going to ruin you or reward you. It’s about giving up the reins because you want to, not because you have to.

You want to be undone in the best, most delicious way possible. To feel your body betray you with every shiver. To have your mind unraveled by someone who actually cares enough to learn what makes you tick—and then uses that knowledge to make you beg.

It’s about the build-up. The release. And the “please, Miss Erin” that slips out without you even thinking about it.

Sensual Domination FAQ

What you should know about booking a sensual domination session with me.

How do I prepare for a sensual domination session?

The most important thing to be concerned with for a sensual domination session is hygiene. Please come freshly showered, or be prepared to shower at the dungeon. Also please make sure to use mouthwash prior to our time together, and if you smoke, please refrain from smoking for at least an hour prior. 

Who do you offer Sensual domination experiences to?

Honestly? Anyone who wants to be teased mercilessly, loves a womanly body, and wants to be denied until they can't take it any longer!

I love seeing men, women, couples, and anyone in between. I'm particularly fond of teaching couples how to turn each other's minds into mush in various ways, too. 

Generally speaking though, I tend to see cis men between the ages of 25-55 who are professional, kind, adventurous, and generous. 

Can I touch you during a sensual domination session?

That's going to depend on how I feel that day, and if you've actually earned the right to touch me. Some earn it very quickly, while some take a bit longer. You will be invited to touch me, and only then should you do so.

The point of sensual domination is for me to be the one to touch, tease, deny, and control you through me touching you, not the other way around. 

On occasion I may be in a particular mood and want you to touch me more than normal; I will let you know if/when that happens.

Can I request certain activities be involved during my sensual domination session?

You can certainly request and tell me your interests. Chances are if you're interested in booking with me, we have a lot of interests that overlap anyway. Knowing where we overlap ensures that we both have a great experience.  

While I don't necessarily take requests, I do keep our mutual interests in mind when formulating our session. 

Can I bring my favorite toys?

Chances are I have most of what you'd want, but if you're more comfortable bringing your own toys, you're always welcome to do so. 

Does our session have to be in a dungeon? I prefer a more domestic/traditional space, like a bedroom.

It is my preference to session in dungeon spaces as I have more tools and equipment available to me to craft your demise. 

If you prefer a more domestic setting, please let me know and this can be arranged with enough advanced notice. 

What to expect during Your Session

With me, sensual domination starts before you even walk through the door. I expect honesty, openness, and a willingness to let me see what you crave, even if you can barely admit it to yourself.

I craft every experience around our mutual interests, your limits, your fantasies, and your unspoken desires. Every session is like my own little game where I find out exactly how to make you melt.

Sensual domination can include a lot of things, but let’s be honest—these are just my tools. My real goal? To have you breathless, mindless, and desperate for permission to cum. And then deny you the moment you ask.

Your Experience May Include:

  • Tease and Denial: The exquisite agony of being built up—only to be left wanting more.
  • Sensory Play: Blindfolds, feathers, ice—heightening some senses by taking others away.
  • Body Worship: My skin. My curves. My scent. Right in front of you. Just out of reach.
  • Edging: That throbbing, dripping, can’t-think-straight place I love to hold you in.
  • Verbal Control: Light teasing about how you ended up here, and how much you’re going to love every second of it.
  • Optional Kinks: Light to heavy bondage, role play, strap-on, prostate massage, or whatever else that filthy little mind of yours can conjure. If I like it, we’ll go there.

Who is this for?

Sensual domination is for men, women, couples, and anyone in between who are:

  • Newbies: Curious about BDSM but not sure you’re ready for the hardcore stuff (spoiler: you might be).
  • Sensualists: You live for the anticipation, the slow build, the teasing.
  • Submissives: Craving a gentler, but no less powerful, form of surrender.
  • Explorers: Ready to discover new layers of your sexuality in a safe, controlled space.

If you’re looking for something that’s as mentally stimulating as it is physically overwhelming, you’re in the right place.

Why book with Erin Black in Chicago?

Because I’ve got the experience, the wit, and the intuition to know what you need, often before you do.

I’m not here to check boxes or act out someone else’s fantasy. I’m here to craft something real. Something memorable. Something that leaves you grinning on the train home, replaying every second in your head.

When you’re with me, you’re not one of many. You’re mine—for the time we share. I bring my entire self to every session: my humor, my honesty, my unfiltered delight in watching a man give in.

And let’s be honest—I’ve got a way of making you forget your own name with a single look. You’ll thank me later.

If your heart’s racing, your breath’s shallow, and your imagination’s already running wild, it’s time to stop thinking and start asking.

Reach out. Tell me your secrets. Let’s build something that’s equal parts playful, filthy, and unforgettable.

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in Kinky GFE, sensual domination, chastity, smothering, gender-based play, BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences.

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Erin Black has been Chicago’s premiere alternative, BBW, Tattooed, and Kinky escort since 2011. Erin specializes in Kinky GFE, sensual domination, chastity, smothering, gender-based play, BDSM, pegging, prostate play, strap-on play, and dominant, woman-led experiences.

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5-9pm, Monday-Friday
11-9pm Saturday and Sunday
I do require 72hr+ notice for all bookings.

I occasionally have daytime availability during the week! If you’re a current friend, please reach out via text message or direct email.

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